Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas!

We aren't sending out Christmas cards this year (as usual), but we do want to send Christmas greetings. Here is a quote we recently read we'd like to share:

For each of you may this be a merry Christmas,
But more importantly,
I wish for each of you a time,
perhaps only an hour,
spent in the silent meditation and
quiet reflection on the wonder
and the majesty of this,
the Son of God.
Our joy at this season is because
He came into the world.
The peace that comes from Him,
His infinite love,
which each of us may feel,
and an overwhelming sense of gratitude
for that which He freely gave us
at so great a cost to Himself--
these are the true essence of Christmas.
President Gordon B. Hinckley


Gordon B. Hinckley


Merry Christmas!
Love, Dave and Arline

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Visa Trips

For non-Russian missionaries, a visa is only good for 90 days. Exactly 90 days, not 3 months, so the office keeps close track and makes sure each missionary goes out of the country around day 88, just to be on the safe side. Currently the country we go to is Finland. That may change in the future. We were told "the government" (don't know if that's the Russian government or the US, or maybe the host country) decides where we'll go to pick up our new visas.

Visa trips and migrations are very disruptive to missionary work because it affects not only the missionary who leaves, but also the companion. In the past that meant that the companion became part of a threesome companionship, and the three missionaries had to keep up the work in both areas. Now under the new guidelines it means he goes to Novosibirsk and spends a few days there street contacting with the companion of another missionary who is going on visa, which will be less and less fun for them as the weather gets colder. We have to cover their group in English Club if they're gone on a Tuesday night or Gospel English on a Thursday night. For visa trips it's also disruptive because of the nature of the flights. They leave early one morning, spend most of the day traveling or waiting in airports, have a day in Helsinki to pick up their passports with the new visa, go to the temple and shop (Helsinki has a lot of "American" foods and some stores that cater to Americans), and then fly back to Novosibirsk on an overnight flight and then take a bus or the train back home, returning about 60 hours after they left, absolutely exhausted. There's a four-hour time difference between Helsinki and "home" and they're gone just long enough to mix up their sleep schedules. Being young, they think they can take advantage of the extra four hours the first night, but forget they lose four hours when they get back home. However, the missionaries love going to Helsinki and the temple. Fortunately, senior couples get to stay an extra day in Helsinki because of the rigors of travel on their old bodies. We use the same early morning/overnight flights, but don't have to rush to fit everything in in Helsinki. Now that we're in Novokuznetsk, we take an overnight train on Monday night and return early Saturday morning, again traveling on an overnight train. We like the change of scenery and LOVE being in the Helsinki temple. It's too bad the travel part is so brutal. Three months ago we didn't want to have to travel three nights on our visa trip. We've decided that's better than what we put up with last time where we had to change airports, had long layovers, and got delayed for hours because of fog.

Often with all the travel involved, there are other problems. The last group to go on visa got stuck in Helsinki because of the weather and missed their connecting flight, so they had to hang around in Moscow for a day. Fun for them, but more time away from missionary work. Another time the Elders got on the plane in Helsinki and just before takeoff one of them commented that he didn't see any workers on the tarmac. Between the time they boarded and when they took off, the ground crews went on strike. The luggage didn't get to Russia for a couple of days. And here the airline doesn't deliver it to your home. The missionaries had to keep checking with the airport to find out when their luggage would be ready for them to pick up. Because of some of the things we (meaning all missionaries from the US) like to pick up in Finland are "liquids" like Sweet Baby Ray's BBQ sauce or French's mustard, we often check our luggage on the return trip.

In addition to the disruption of missionary work, these trips are very expensive. It would be nice if the Russian government would just let the Church pay a visa renewal fee and not require us to travel out of the country. However, we think that going to the temple is a gift, so for now we'll enjoy the mini some-expenses-paid "vacation" without complaint. Unlike the younger missionaries, senior couples pay for most of their own day-to-day expenses; however, the Church does cover most of the expenses incurred on visa trips including airfare and hotels.

The missionaries from the other former Soviet countries don't need visas, but they do have to do a "migration" trip and leave the country every 90 days. Our Latvian elder has to return to Latvia and is gone for nearly a week. He helps the missionaries there; when his migration paperwork is done he gets to come back. Our Ukrainian missionaries leave their areas in time to arrive in Barnaul in the evening, stay overnight with the zone leaders (elders) or a member or senior couple (sisters) and then early the next morning, 5:30-6:00ish someone picks them up, drives them over the border into Kazakhstan where they get to sit around for a few hours while their migration is processed and then drive back. Usually they catch a bus back to their area that night. One time a sister forgot to grab her passport on her way out the door and left it on the counter in her apartment. Someone got it to the train in Novosibirsk and the sister had to go to the train station in Barnaul to pick it up mid-morning the next day. They didn't get back from Kazakhstan until late that evening and had to stay with us another night before catching a 6:30 am bus the next morning. She was SO embarrassed!

The office really has to plan ahead so they can buy tickets from whatever city the missionary will be leaving from. This means that transfers are actually planned about three weeks in advance to avoid last-minute expensive tickets, but kept very hush-hush. Once I talked with President Trejo (our former mission president) on a Friday morning and during the conversation he said something about transfers that would be announced that night. He apologized to me but said that he doesn't talk to ANYONE (except the travel secretary) about the transfers before they're announced to the missionary, five days before the actual transfer. President Gibbons thinks the missionaries need more time for planning and saying goodbyes, so he announces transfers ten days before.

The timing for our next visa trip had us traveling overnight on New Years Eve. New Years is one of the two BIG holidays in Russia. It's such a big drinking day that the missionaries don't try to do any missionary work. Church will be one hour and then we'll all head to our apartments and stay put for the rest of the day. Anyway, rather than try to travel that night, the mission office moved our trip up a week. That means we'll get to be in Helsinki to see all the Christmas sights, exhibits, lights and hoopla! We're very excited about that.

This week in Russia:
It's time to reveal who the Russians are. We were a little surprised that there is so little ethnic diversity here, but yet there is no "Russian" look. That's why we included this--so you could be as surprised as we were! A lot of Germans look German, Brits have a British look to them, but Russians look like, um, nothing much we can pick out. A big part of it is that we don't understand how people who look so normal can open their mouths and have all sorts of unintelligible sounds come out, person after person after person!

A few people guessed one of the Russians, but the only one who guessed all three correctly was my dad. He also guessed the other nine incorrectly. Here are the pictures again but with their names underneath. Let's see if that helps you figure out which ones are Russian.
Elder Howard, Elder Turley, Старейшина Варган (he's over 2 meters tall when he doesn't slouch), Elder Newman, Elder Bounous, Elder Kelly (who is now with us in Novokuznetsk)
Sister Djurich, Sister Trottier, Sister Margolies, Sister Holmes, Сестра Василевская, Сестра Филатова (they are stepsisters and companions right now--yes, sister Sisters)

If you can't guess from their names, maybe you need to learn your alphabet again.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Baptisms and Bridges

We've had two baptisms since we came here, one in November and one yesterday. We've recently been (re)cautioned against giving out much information on blogs unless they're private because sometimes new members mentioned on blogs have been persecuted, so we won't post pictures and will only give sketchy details.

Our church building here is very small and there's no room for a baptismal font, so we go to a sauna/spa for baptisms. They have a small, deep pool (about 6' X 12' X 5' deep) and we use an attached room for the prayers and talks. It's different than other places we've seen for baptisms, but beats trying to do a baptism outside in freezing weather.

Стас (Stas, the Russian equivalent of Stan--we like that name!) was baptized November 19. He's been "investigating" the church for a long time. At first his parents were against it, and he couldn't get baptized without their permission. He waited a few years, but still came to a lot of activities and met often with the missionaries. He was baptized a week after his 18th birthday. His parents would have given their permission by now, but he wanted to wait until it was totally his choice. He's great! The missionaries said they have even seen him mature in the three weeks since his baptism.

The second baptism was yesterday. Мария (Maria) started coming to Gospel English and Family Home Evenings a few weeks ago. We thought she was around 20, but soon found out she is 16. She was very interested right off the bat, and said that what the missionaries taught her sounded "familiar." Her younger brother seems very interested too, but he hasn't had any lessons yet. Her parents are very supportive. After her baptism, she told us last week had been rough for her. She has lost friends because of her decision to join the Church. Her testimony is very strong. She's a very accomplished young lady in sports and education.

We're excited to have her in the branch. However, we have a little bit of a problem now. In our building we have the main room which is used for Sacrament Meeting, Sunday School and Priesthood, and a smaller room where we hold Relief Society. There's also a short hallway with bookcases where we store a few things where the missionaries have been meeting with a 12 year old for Young Men, and a restroom. Now we need a place to meet for Young Women (or is that Woman?). We knew this day would come too soon. We're just glad we're not trying to set up a Primary as well! Even though we only average about 17 people on Sundays, including the 6 missionaries, it's time for us to find a larger building to meet in.

This week's Russianism:
They have a fun tradition in Russia. When a couple gets married, they buy 7 padlocks. After the ceremony they go to 7 different bridges around their city, put a padlock on the railing and throw the key into the river below. There's a lot of fanfare with it and cars are decorated with ribbons and flowers. Often traffic is hindered as they put the locks on the bridge because they are accompanied by lots of friends and sometimes a videographer, but no one seems to mind. After they finish at one bridge they drive to the next bridge, honking all the way.

The locks stay put. When the railing gets painted, the locks get painted over as well. Supposedly if the couple wants to get divorced they have to find each key and take all their locks off all 7 bridges. We asked if that really happens and the people just laughed. "The keys are washed downstream, but it's a nice idea," was their response.

One interesting thing we learned is that when they get married (or divorced), that information is noted in their passports. The birth of each child is also noted in their passports.

Happy anniversary today Jeff & Becca, and to Brad & Heather on December 30, and next year to Niki & Michael in May, and Stan & Melanie in June, and all the rest of you on your specials days.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Festival of Trees

You might think it's strange to have a post about Festival of Trees while we're here in Russia. Ever since Niki was a patient at Primary Children's Medical Center when she was four, we've participated in at least one of their various fundraising activities every year. However, since we can't do much of anything for PCMC while we're here, our kids said they'd do a tree this year. It turned out отличный (aht-leech-nee), as we say in Russia.

A big thanks to Becca for spearheading it. She got everyone involved,
including those who live out of state. Even cousin Em wanted to be a part of it. And thanks, Becca, for getting us the pictures so quickly. It made us feel like we were a part of it. Unfortunately, there were a few problems and we couldn't get all her pictures on the blog. Just know that the finished tree was glorious!

They called it Winter Woodland. Enjoy these pict
ures of the tree in process.

Em and Niki checking out the snowballs, and Michael (getting ready to cut Niki's hair?)

Seeing Michael on a ladder surprised us. We thought he was tall enough to reach anything. Flatfooted.

Niki, adding some white berries

Quality takes a lot of work and a long time to pull together. Em, Becca and Michael during their dinner break. Five Guys, mmmm.

Jeff was behind the camera for most of the pictures. I guess he did this shot to prove he was there. He was also in charge of putting the tree together, and he's got plenty of scratches to prove it, too.

Niki and Em attaching the snowy tree skirt

Admiring their work and making last minute adjustments

In addition to all the time they spent putting it together at the Festival, they also spent hours and hours in preparatory work (and of course lots of paper work and hoops to jump through). They started December 26--last year. This is the wonderful result of 11 months of planning and preparing.

The tree sold for about 3 times as much as they spent on it. Jeff said that with all their time, he figures that works out to about $1/hour. But knowing that they've helped a child get care they couldn't afford makes it all worth it, right?

This was the most wonderful Christmas present you could have given to us in Russia! Thank you!!!


This week's Russianism:
Dave found a Christmas tree for us. It's two feet tall from star to base. At first we thought it was nice they'd have a tree in red, white and blue for us. Then we realized those are the colors of the Russian flag as well. We weren't planning to have a tree, but Dave found this for a great price. We love this season. Merry Christmas!

And as far as last week's blog and "Can you spot the Russians?" contest, so far Kelly's ahead. He got one right. Can you beat him?